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2/22/2015

Why I Declutter Constantly

I know my family gets sick of me constantly asking "do you still use/want/need this?" 

But in a family of four, if you don't keep up with the 1 in, 1 out rule (getting rid of a similar item when a new one comes into the space), your nicely organized home can quickly snowball into an unruly amount of clutter!

And just because I'm a professional organizer does not mean that my house is always completely free of clutter.  It has a lot less than it might otherwise because I am constantly decluttering!

I'm not a big fan of cleaning.  I'd rather organize a medicine cabinet than sweep and mop the floor. Obviously cleaning is a necessity in life, so if our space is kept organized (for the most part), it makes it easier more bearable to clean.  I guess some people say "clean" when what they're really doing is decluttering.  

Unexpected call from a friend saying that she's stopping by in 10 minutes...do you clean--or declutter?  You know, the "run around and throw everything that's laying around into a box and shove it into your bedroom closet" kind of cleaning...not mopping the floors kind of cleaning.

If you can keep things in their place, then there is no need to run around like a chicken with your head cut off when someone mentions that they're going to swing by shortly.  Don't get me wrong--if you show up at my house unannounced, you will see things laying around (most likely Legos and dishes)--but unless someone in the house has been sick for a few days, there won't be piles of stuff, just scattered stuff.

So, how do you keep your home free of clutter?
To start, you have to get rid of stuff.  That's the reality of being clutter-free....and the part that most people don't want to hear, think about, or do.  But you need to.  

Moving stuff to another room ≠ decluttering.  

Decluttering means getting rid of unused items (even if you love them!), and organizing the remaining things in the space.  Daily items within arms reach, weekly items stored just farther away, and things used less than once a week (seasonal, etc) in deep storage (garage, basement, attic).

Once your home is free of clutter, it's just a matter of maintaining it.  
(Remember the 1 in, 1 out rule?)

But how do you get it decluttered in the first place?!
Start by assessing your skills: 
-Can you go through stuff on your own and clear out things that you no longer want, need, or use?
-Can you finish what you start and not leave a pile to finish later?
If so, (and you have a lot of stuff) try doing a month-long decluttering challenge, like this one.  

Or...are you overwhelmed and don't know where to start?  Have a history of not finishing a project?
If that's the case, you could benefit from hiring a professional organizer to help you tackle your clutter (wink, wink).

There is no shame in hiring a professional to help you declutter...you may think that you should be able to "do it yourself."  But if you haven't--and you can't--then hire someone to help!  If you're not a plumber and your sink sprung a leak, you'd call a plumber--right?  Well, if your stuff is in a state of chaos, and you haven't been able to get it under control...call someone who knows how to get it organized!

Once your space is decluttered and organized, it's a matter of keeping that way: 
Have a place where everything goes.  
Set up a system that works for your personality.
Acknowledge that you're human--praise yourself for hard work and try again for slip-ups.  
Reevaluate if things aren't working.
Declutter again if needed.
Keep going.

And remember, even professional organizers have to declutter their own homes...

1/18/2015

Impermanence

I attend a group meditation practice here in Colorado Springs.  We talk a lot about the idea of impermanence...that things are in a constant state of change.  This has helped me in my life in more ways than I can count, and is especially helpful when it comes dealing with an attachments to things.

Every living thing will die at some point.  
We all know this, it's the only thing certain in life besides taxes, right?

But it's hard to apply this same theory to our stuff, since it's not "living"...

If you can apply the idea of impermanence to the items in your house--to everything in your life--then it's much easier to deal with letting go of them.

Dropped your favorite coffee mug and it shattered into pieces?
Lesson on impermanence.

Lost your favorite blue shirt somewhere?
Lesson on impermanence.

Got rear-ended and the insurance totaled your car?
Lesson on impermanence.

Your 15-year-old dog has come to the end of her life?
Lesson on impermanence.

Obviously, we have stronger attachments to certain things, but if you can remind yourself that everything comes to an end at some point, it makes it easier to allow yourself to let go of the clutter in your life.  Like each season having a beginning and an end, so too do the items in our lives.

If you're feeling overwhelmed with too much stuff in your house...take a walk through it and pick out some items whose time have come to an end in your life.

1/01/2015

Resolutions...

I saw a meme that said:
"I'm going to open a gym called 'Resolutions' in January...and turn it into a bar in February."

What is it with this "let's start 1001 new habits on January 1st!"??

How about we just think of the one thing we'd really, really like to become a habit and take baby steps to make that happen...

If you'd like to get more organized, a phenomenal way to start is commit to putting things away.
(if the items don't have a place where they belong, then work on that--one thing at a time!)

When you get into the habit of putting things away, not only do you prevent the piles of clutter,
but it snowballs into getting rid of things that are consistently out (and need put away),  other
family members also putting things away, and no need to scurry around trying to shove things
out of sight when unexpected guests arrive!

Of course you'll have busy days, sick kids, and houseguests...so this won't happen 100% of the time. But every time you do put something away, it's one more time you're sticking to your resolution.

Happy New Year!
Here's to a less cluttered, simpler life in 2015!